This is a very selfish post on my part. What to do, what to do? But, basketball season with Evan has ended and he is heartbroken. He still plays outside on the carport every day. He keeps asking when it will start again. And, in the midst, has realized how much he enjoyed basketball and how he didn't t-ball. Well, he has decided very assuredly that he does not want to play t-ball this summer. When I reminded him of his friends playing, he was a little hesitant but asked me if he would see them at church and school next year, I said yes. He said, okay then, I don't want to play. It initially came up just yesterday. Scott and I were utterly shocked. We explained over and over this is not something you can start back once we make the decision; for this year anyway. And, in his defense, I honestly did not mention t-ball to him much before signing him up, I just thought it was a given.
And, then I got REALLY excited when I learned that several of his little friends would be on this team this year; which equates to several of mommy's friends being on his team this year. I was
SOOOO excited as I was already in mourning that Noah decided not to play, thus my social time with the several of those same moms would be negated. UNTIL their little ones joined our little team. I was ecstatic! Unfortunately, I had not kept Evan in the decision/equation too much.
He is very emphatic that he does not want to play. We have explained it up one side and down the other. Once he figured out he could still see his friends, his ONLY concern was the
slushes. So, he has until tonight to really think it over, and I learned that his first practice is Sunday. So, based on
tonight's discussion, will likely phone his coach and give him a heads-up in case someone else may need a team. I would love to see him at least go to practice on Sunday, but, I think we will let him take the lead on this. I can't let my disappointment make him do something he would not be happy with. Just can't do it.
He's only five.
And, it's not like there are any scouts camped out on our front lawn.
THE sweetest thing of all, that makes this a
tad easier....when I asked him if he would like to try another sport, activity, etc....his very prompt answer: "Nope. I just want to relax this summer and fish a lot before Kindergarten. Mommy, will you fish with us too.?"
Okay, ladies....I had MUCH rather be sipping
slushes and eating popcorn with you on the hot bleachers this summer. But, it looks as though I may be casting reels and using a lot of bug spray. And, in the end.....I will be just as happy on the pond bank as I would the bleachers (minus the girlfriends) but, I have to keep reminding myself...this so isn't about me.
{sniff, sniff!}
If you see me in black tomorrow......I am in mourning x 2.
Will keep you posted!!!!!!!!!!!!!
addendum: just to be clear......before I get in trouble with anyone.....I would be lying if I said I wasn't a little sad. But, at same time, I think it will work out great for some "down" time that I think my little family is in desperate need for. So, all will be good - whatever he decides. And, we can always come watch! ;)
But, I may still be in black tomorrow. ;)
My little E. These are in reverse order. This is just before he threw the bat. The ref almost called it but gave him some leniency.
E getting ready...
My E's best buddy E...I'm afraid these two will spell trouble in the future! ha! 
